What are the Chances??

Do you see our sweet Emerson?

One of my fellow AP ("adoptive parent") friends went to Korea last month to bring home her adorable son. She was getting ready for her first face-to-face meeting with him, and decided to take some pictures of the agency. She's now back home and settling in. So excited and happy for her!! We got together last week so I could hear all about her amazing trip. She brought her pictures and we were looking at them when all of a sudden, I spot the most precious face in the background of one of them! My friend didn't even know she had taken a picture of Emerson! What are the chances??

I burst into tears seeing Emerson's little face peering down the hallway at the camera. How did she look right at mommy's friend right at that moment? Most of the pictures we've received are of Emerson by herself so it was hard to gauge her size. In the last picture we got of her standing wearing her new shoes, she looked so tall and big. But seeing her sitting in her foster mommy's lap, she still looks small and baby-like. So, so precious!

Thank you Emerson for giving us a chance to see your beautiful precious face. We thank God that you were there the same day as mommy's friend. We love that you looked right at the camera so we could see you. I can't wait to be in that same exact hallway one day soon, holding my breath for that amazing, magical moment when we'll get to see your sweet, sweet face in person for the first time.

Mommy and Daddy

Happy 15 Months!

Happy 15 Months, Emerson!!!

I've been following the weather reports in Seoul and lately it's been sunny one day, then raining and cold the next. I hope on your mini-birthday it was a beautiful and sunny day. I know it's going to start getting pretty downright chilly soon so mama's going to be sending you some warm sweaters and jackets in her next care packages!

Mommy and Daddy **loved** getting pictures of you last month wearing the shoes we sent.

Ever since we learned the shoes we sent back in May were too small for you, I've been a mission to find shoes for you. In the video, you kept reaching for the shoes and foster mom had asked if there were any way to exchange them for a bigger size. That made me so sad to think that you really liked them and even possibly really needed a pair. I was so worried the shoes we sent would be too big/small again, but they look like they fit just right. Whyayyy! ( < ---- combination of Whew + Yayy). If we were able to send bigger packages, I would have sent another pair. I actually had a hard time choosing which pair to send between the two below.

Toddler shoes are just toooo cute!

Happy 15 months, our beautiful Emerson!

I wish mommy could stop time and keep you from growing while we're apart, but that's just her selfish side talking. Truth of the matter is, I love all the updates we get on you and cherish each and every new thing you are doing. The last update said you're eating noodles, bread and cheese and that you love books. You are already starting to take after this mama!

I read up on a 15-month old toddler's development, and apparently one of your favorite words right now is going to be "no." I think that's absolutely adorable, and hopefully foster family will think so, too. ;)

As we head into fall and as the year's end is quickly drawing near, it's clear that we will not be traveling in 2011 to bring you home. It was never truly a possibility, but I held out hope for God's miracle. At some point in this journey I said we'd trust in His perfect timing, and more than ever I hold on to that for comfort.

On your 15th month celebration, I celebrate how much you've grown, your health, and the fact that we are able to send tokens of our love through care packages. I pray every day for that very special day when we will come face to face in person. For now, I feel blessed just seeing your beautiful face in my dreams.

Mommy and daddy love you with all our hearts. Happy 15th months!

427 Days

That's how many days are in 14 months. That's how many days old our little sunshine is today! Hasn't she grown so much?

I know it seems strange to be thinking in termsof days but that's how it's been ever since sweet Emerson came into our lives. I'm counting each day that passes that we're apart from each other. Marking off each day as a victory because it brings us one day closer to her.

Day. By. Day.

She came into our lives when she was just 6 1/2 months old and now she's already 14 months old. To kick off her mini-birthday, I've decided to start getting her room ready. I've waited long enough. I was actually ready to start months ago - collecting paint cards, fabric swatches, creating mock ups, etc.. But then it dawned on me that it'd be terribly difficult to have her room ready, and then just sit there.. empty. But it's time to get going on it and have it all pretty and nice, and welcoming and comfy for Emerson!

Happy 14 Months dearest Emerson ! I'm sure today's milestone day is going to be extra special because it's also Chuseok in Korea this weekend. What a festive weekend it's going to be! In the spirit of the Korean Thanksgiving holiday, we'll be celebrating all that we are thankful for as well. And you know that list is super duper duper long because of YOU! Happy Chuseok and Happy 14 months!

Know in your heart that mommy and daddy love you and miss you more than we can adequately express.

From Korea, with Love

Last week we received word that birthday pictures taken in Korea had arrived at our agency and they were going to forward the DVD to us via mail. SAY WHAT?? I had been pouting and having a pity party for myself because we were previously told that the agency in Korea had not taken any pictures when Em and foster mom came to pick up her birthday package.

After checking the mail incessantly for days, we finally got the dvd. We were hoping for two, and if lucky, possibly three pictures from that day. But instead we received about 20 of our birthday girl celebrating with smiles, hugs, cake, and even a mini tol celebration at her home! It was more than we imagined or hoped for on her birthday. During Em's birthday weekend when we were celebrating here, I looked at the clock constantly, wondering just what was going on halfway around the world. I wondered if we'd ever know. And now thanks to her amazing foster family, we do.

Emerson wearing the outfit we sent.

The top says "I'm the birthday girl."

They got her a hanbok!! I was so moved.

This is actually one of, if not my favorite picture. That smile!

And I love that foster mom is "hiding" in the back as she props up

Emerson for the birthday candle shot!

For her foster family to share personal pictures taken inside their home... For them to include photos of them holding her, playing with her, feeding her... To see how relaxed and happy she is with all of them... I am simply overwhelmed. Love was emanating from the pictures. We clearly saw it and felt it. They are not only her caregivers, but are her family. We vowed that even when Emerson comes home to us, we will keep them in her and our lives.

Our sweet and precious Emerson,

Thanks to your wonderful foster family, we were able to share a part of your first birthday. It looks like you had so much fun! You looked so beautiful and adorable in that lovely hanbok foster family got you. They were so nice to also dress you in the outfit we sent and even put a pretty matching hairbow on you to complete the look. While looking at the pictures on our computer, there were a couple times my breath stopped, and once I even reached out my hand to stroke your face on the screen. Daddy and I both cried happy tears as we spent hours the first night just looking at each picture over and over.

It goes without saying that we miss you to the point of heartache, and cannot wait to hold you in our arms. But now we have another reason to look forward to that day when we all come together. I can't wait to meet foster family. I want to thank them until my words run out and then I want to hear all about the stories they have of you. I know that when the time comes for us to bring you home, you will miss them so much and your little heart will ache for them. I promise to share all the wonderful stories they shared with me with you. I also promise that we will visit them again as a family one day.

We love you.

Mommy & Daddy

Praying, praying...

{Updated 7/28/11: I contacted our agency who said since most of the flooding is in the southern part of Seoul, they anticipate our agency in Korea and all the children in their care should be fine since they are in the northern part of the city. At this time, they say no news is good news. }

I am trying to stay calm right now. News about torrential rains in South Korea leading to widespread damage and death has got me so anxious and worried for Emerson and her foster family. What's making me more nervous is that early this morning I woke up from a bad dream and couldn't fall back asleep until I prayed for Emerson's safety and well-being. I hope my prayers are a shield of protection around her and her foster family.

It's so hard being apart from her and not being able to protect her. Please pray for the safety of our little girl and for all those affected in Korea.

Our little Winker ;)

Guess who got a video of their daughter this week???

It's a 12-minute video taken the same day Emerson had her pictures taken in her red outfit. That's the day she came in to meet our agency's Korea director last month. Emerson was sweet and doing her own thing and didn't seem to care for all the attention on her. Her foster mom and social worker were doing their best to get her to play up to the camera. FM wanted her to stand and say hello. Her social worker kept telling her to wink. Yes, wink! They were singing songs to her and trying to get her to sing along and do hand movements. She didn't do any of it, lol. But through it all, she never cried or got fussy. Good girl!

It has been amazing to see her mannerisms and movements. We were hoping to hear her voice and strained our ears to finally hear a tiny "ah daw daw." Yayy! Now the kicker is halfway into the video, we finally got a wink! Her social worker kept asking her to do it and Emerson looked down and did it! That is just about the cutest thing I had ever seen!!

It was also neat to hear the background chatter and to hear Gene and I referred to as her Ab-pah and Um-mah ("daddy" and "mommy"). I can't get enough of that! Our director showed Emerson the photo album we sent and said "Look! Here's your Ab-pah. And your Um-mah." Emerson looked through the album with her FM, too.

It was heartwarming to see the interaction between her and FM. It brings tears to my eyes just thinking about it right now. FM is amazing with her. If Emerson felt unsure about anything, she'd immediately look at FM for her reaction. There's a scene where FM lifts Emerson and lays her laying down onto her lap. They're both laughing. Such a sweet moment... and I hope they have a lot of those.

I've stayed up late the past two nights just watching the video over and over on a loop. They say a picture is worth a thousand words. This video then is priceless.

I love you my little winker. ;)

Birthday cont'd...

Emerson, here are a few more pictures from your birthday last week. It was a joyous weekend filled with celebration!

Close-up of purty cupcakes.

Lots of fun books for us to read with you. And l@@k... PRINCESS toys!!

Thank you, Auntie Claudia!

Soft kitty and even softer blankie.

Thank you, Auntie Hedy!

Mommy and friends (your aunties!) celebrating your birthday at dinner.

Today's the BIG DAY

Happy First Birthday, our beautiful and precious Emerson!!

I tossed and turned all night in anticipation of today... counting down the hours and then the minutes to when it turned 12:01 AM in Korea. Although we can't physically be there to celebrate this very special day with you, we are right there with you in heart and spirit.

Not only are we are, but your grandparents, aunts and uncles, and cousins all joined us in celebrating with you today.

Happy first birthday, my love.